7 Things I Wish I Knew About Dating In My 20s

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There’s no rule book for how to have an incredible relationship. And that means that a lot of us (myself included) make tons of mistakes.

I’m turning 32 on October 5th. And as I look back on the last decade or so, I realize that I’ve done some things wrong. Which is why in this video I want to share with you 7 things I wish I knew in my 20s.


0:31 – #1: People change because of internal motivation.
2:01 – #2: Chemistry is a phase.
2:24 – #3: People who are fundamentally friends have the strongest relationships.
3:49 – #4: Duration is a bad measure of quality.
4:47 – #5: Conversation shouldn’t have to change when he/she enters the room.
6:01 – #6: Never give up your friendships because of a relationship.
7:24 – #7: You need to show your work emotionally.

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